The conundrum of life

can someone give a solution for

this conundrum called life

where the death is lone truth

and living a sheer strife

where everything is mysterious

before birth and after death

where existence is dubious

and uncertainty in every breath

where relatives are predetermined

but friends are always chosen

where the deeds are celebrated

but consequences are unspoken

where the objectives are vague

but the path is determinate

where the start is obscure

but the end is predestinate

the more you try to unearth it

the more enigmatic it goes

the conundrum of life is the

biggest mystery one knows